Wedding Night Sex - Hot Or Hype

Well, there you are. The wedding reception is over and you're alone with your bride - finally. The wedding day can really take a toll on the groom and bride. You're bound to be dead tired after hours of standing, posing, dancing, and talking to every family member and friend at the reception. If you're like 55% of newlyweds, it's time for bed. However, if you're one of the lucky 45%: Game on! Here are some helpful tips on making wedding night sex an experience that you and your bride won't soon forget.
First Things First
You need to chill out and relax for a bit after the wedding. But be careful, there's a fine line between falling asleep and resting to build up some energy. Chances are, you'll spend the first hour or so after the reception reminiscing about the wedding day and how great it was. We also recommend having a doggy bag prepared with wedding food from the reception. This is a standard practice with most caterers. Because most couples are too busy to eat very much during the day, food will replenish your body for the more strenuous activities to come.
Recommendation: One thing most guys may not realize about the wedding reception is that every time you have an empty hand, someone will probably hand you a drink. Word to the wise: Try to drink in moderation. You don't want to have trouble rising to the occasion later.
Talk Dirty To Me
Of course, we're talking about telling your brand new wife how special she is, and how beautiful she looked in her wedding dress. Nothing will likely get your bride in the mood more than hearing this. She's been looking forward to this day for quite some time.
From there, the conversation can turn to more arousing material.
Turning in the V-Card?
First off, congratulations are in order to those of you who held out and waited for marriage. We're certain it wasn't easy to do. The main thing to remember in planning for the first time is not to stress yourself out. Let's be honest: your performance the first time won't be perfect. But what will be perfect is the experience. However, if you really want to impress her, we recommend picking up a book or checking out some websites on sex tips. Trust us, they're out there. Just be careful about how much you put into practice the first time - you don't want her to wonder where you learned all of your tricks.
Bag of Tricks
Since you'll (hopefully) never get another shot at wedding night sex, why not make it an experience that will be hard to top? Whether you're staying at a hotel or a house, plan ahead and have some rose petals, chocolate covered strawberries, champagne, or a combination of the three prepared in the bedroom. We don't expect you guys to understand, but women dig this kind of stuff (especially brides). Another way to set the mood is to create a mix CD of songs that have meant a lot to you and your bride over the years. Pick songs that won't get old because you'll hopefully be hearing them on repeat all night long.
For those men out there who like to boldly go where few others have before, try wearing something special for her. It could be a leopard print thong or maybe a themed costume that will fulfill a fantasy that she's always dreamt of. The key here is to be creative.

Meeting A Woman For The First Time

You started online dating to meet a woman. Now it is time to meet your online match for the first time. Meeting a woman in a comfortable environment is your best strategy for transitioning to a relationship in the real world.
Meet As Friends
When it comes time to meet your online match in person, meet as friends. Don’t go to your first meeting with the idea in your mind that she is The One or might be The One. That puts way too much pressure on your first meeting.
Meet At An Agreed Place
When your online match has decided that she is ready to meet you, let her pick the place for your first meeting. This allows her to choose a place where she will feel comfortable. She may ask for some guidance and making a few suggestions is fine. You might also want to give her a few no-go places if you don’t enjoy a particular type of food, but you should try to be flexible. Unless one of you is driving a long distance, I would try to make the first meeting fairly short. Meeting for lunch, coffee or dessert all work well since none implies huge expectations.
Dress Casual
I would suggest you discuss with your online match dressing casual for your first meeting. I think that helps everyone to keep their expectations in check and promotes a friendly, comfortable environment to explore the possibilities for romance. Your focus should be on one another, not the clothes that you each are wearing.
Have Fun
When you finally meet your online match, relax, be yourself and have a good time. You will look your best with a smile on your face.
Send An E-Mail After Your First Meeting
If you had a successful first meeting, before you go to bed, send her a short e-mail saying that you enjoyed meeting her in person. It is a nice way to let her know that you are interested and it is the best way to help move the relationship forward. Transitioning To A ReRelationship
al World Meeting your online match for the first time is a big step in transitioning you from an online/phone relationship to one in the real world. It still may be awhile before your online match feels comfortable enough to give you her phone number so that you can call or her address so you can pick her up for a date. That will come with time, try to be patient and understanding. Patience might get you somewhere, impatience won’t get you anywhere.